Wednesday, March 27, 2013

No, Stop, Quit it, ENOUGH!

The video below addresses the apparently confusing matter of how to treat a girl who has had too much to drink. Rather than treating her like an inflatable doll and then blaming HER for any assault she may have withstood while in a drunken stupor, think about some of your less sober college days.  Hey, perhaps you still indulge in the hooch to excess in your free time.  No judgment here-- as long as nobody gets hurt.  I'm also sure that none of you have ever done anything really, really, stupid (I'm not just talking about funny stupid-- I'm talking about potentially life-threatening or at the very least end-up-in-jail stupid). 

So why is it socially acceptable for some to treat women in such a terrible way?  Regarding the now-infamous Steubenville case, the victim blaming that occured afterward was horrifying.  Not only was there sympathy for the rapists, ("They had such promising futures!") but she was publicly humiliated when her name was released and her identity was revealed, resulting in death threats.  And the logic behind this, essentially, is that "she had it coming because she drank too much," or "she should have known better."  Just because she drank too much doesn't mean she should suffer the gross injustices inflicted upon her. 

If you are a college-age individual, I ask you: how would you feel if one of your less-than-classy moments of drunkenness was paraded all over the media for everyone to see and judge you upon?  Even without having been raped, I'm sure you would have been mortified.  If you are older and maybe have children of your own,  how would you feel if this happened to your daughter? 

It's time for the victim shaming to stop.  It's time for people to quit treating intoxicated women as public property, and it's definitely time to end this pervasive rape culture.  So who's with me?


Monday, March 25, 2013

Happy Birthday Gloria Steinem


Commentary Recommendation: Respect women's autonomy

"Gov. Andrew Cuomo designated women's equality as one of his top legislative priorities. There should be nothing controversial about promoting equal pay, fighting domestic violence and human trafficking, or affirming that a woman should be able to make her own reproductive health decisions.
 
Yet the governor's action has sparked a furious response from the New York's Catholic bishops, who argue that access to comprehensive reproductive health services has no place in a discussion about women's health and well-being.
Catholic values, however, say otherwise, and the bishops' claims are not consistent with the way that most Catholics, in good faith, live their lives."
Read more.
  

Jon O'Brien's wonderful commentary, posted yesterday on the Times Union Website, makes a lot of great points about the most recent religious controversy: the issue of Catholic Bishops speaking out about the Women's Equality Agenda. I couldn't say it better myself, so I encourage everyone to give it a good read.

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Religion and Birth Control-- the Endless Debate

This screenshot to the right is a good example of the ongoing debate regarding access to birth control and religion. The commenter thinks that forcing companies to provide insurance coverage for birth control is "trampling on religious beliefs," but on the other hand, isn't it wrong to enforce your religious beliefs upon your employees, especially if they are not in alignment with your own? I interpret this as an affront to one of our essential freedoms. “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.” In the event that you flunked history class, that was the first line of the very first amendment of the United States Constitution.

If you personally don't agree with birth control, nobody is forcing you to take it. You have the right to dislike it based on your faith or whatever reason you may have. However, nobody has the right to tell anyone else whether or not they can use it. This is a personal choice that is between the subject, his/her partner, and his/her physician, nobody else, and certainly not the government or their employer. Besides, according to
a study by the Guttmacher Institute, 98% of Catholic women use or have used some form of birth control. So I would ask the commenter in the screenshot; who are you to trample on people’s right to access safe, preventative contraception?

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

The HPV Vaccine Controversy

This Jezebel article came to our attention today, and to put it mildly, it disturbed some of the staff at UHPP greatly.  Here is a blurb that sums up the concerns:

A study from the Mayo Clinic (published in the journal Pediatrics) revealed that more than two in five parents believe the current HPV [vaccine] is either unnecessary, or causes harmful side effects.
The article goes on to explain why this is VERY BAD:
This, according to Mayo Clinic senior researcher Robert Jacobson, M.D., is a troubling trend…Dr. Jacobson explained that given what doctors know about the largely symptom-less spread of HPV and the collateral damage the virus can cause, it's important that parents strongly consider vaccinating their daughters at a fairly early age:
"HPV causes [a variety of gynecological] cancer, and 50 percent of all Americans get infected at least once with HPV. It's a silent infection. You cannot tell when you've been exposed or when you have it. While most HPV infections clear, a percentage linger and start the process of cancerous changes. The HPV vaccine is an anti-cancer vaccine."
Naturally this is an issue that is extremely relevant to Planned Parenthood, given that in 2011 they launched a huge campaign to educate the greater Capital District about the availability of the vaccine.  Not only was it free (and still is), but UHPP would even give patients a bus pass so they could get to one of their health centers.  However, the grant which UHPP received—which allowed them to provide this free service to the community-- only covered men and women from the ages of 19-26.  That is why it is even more crucial for parents to get involved and understand the importance of getting their children vaccinated at a younger age, as it is believed that the vaccine is more effective when administered before the subject becomes sexually active.
Blue Carreker, VP of Public Affairs and Media Relations at UHPP, had this to say about the controversy:
“I get that parents these days are worried about the large number of vaccines now required or suggested for children and young people. Based on history, we all need a healthy dose of skepticism regarding products pushed by doctors and pharmaceutical companies and should do our research.  But doing the research does not mean reading one or two articles by pseudo scientists or anti-drug activists who have their own slanted agenda.  Vaccines have worked to save millions of lives from small pox, cholera, and tuberculosis. And the lives of our sons and daughters are what we are talking about here. On Gardasil, the research and rationale are pretty conclusive. HPV is an epidemic; if you are sexually active it is almost impossible to avoid, especially if one does not use condoms (In the US, our rate of proper condom use is shockingly poor).  The Gardasil vaccine will not protect your son or daughter against all HPV strains, but it will protect them against the most dangerous strains that cause cervical cancer and genital warts. This is a life-saving vaccine. Cervical cancer is still potentially deadly. Genital warts are not curable. So learn the facts--then tell your daughters and sons to get the vaccination, before they are at serious risk.”
The fact that people would allow themselves to be so easily led astray when the lives of their kids are at stake is mind-blowing.  People owe it to their children to at least do all the necessary research before drawing conclusions, and consider the sources of the information they’ve received.
Meaghan Carroll, Director of Education at UHPP, had this to add to the debate:
“For me there are really two fundamental issues at play. One, the need for better provider education around adolescent sexuality; including everything from how to do a proper sexual history, to how to talk with parents about topics that are always sensitive. If more providers were proactive in talking about Gardasil, as well as the myriad of adolescent sexuality issues, I think this wouldn't be as much of an issue, and frankly doctors avoid it. They're afraid to bring it up with patients and they're afraid to bring it up with parents. The other issue, is the more broadly pervasive belief (that won't die) that talking to kids about sex will make them go out and have it. I have no idea how to actually make a dent in that, but that seems to be the secondary underlying fear.
What always amazed me though is that people won't give a Gardasil shot for HPV, but every one of their children has been vaccinated against Hepatitis B BEFORE THEY LEAVE THE HOSPITAL. Does that not seem a little hypocritical? I don't understand why no one else seems to be saying that! Hey remember when you gave your 2 day old baby a shot for a sexually transmitted disease and your baby didn't go out and go Spring Break crazy? Well your 9 year old won't either.”
Doctor House would not approve
If Meaghan’s comment sounded crazy, then you’ll find that the truth is stranger than fiction—by which I mean you cannot make this stuff up.  There was a horribly misguided and misleading movement dedicated to convincing parents that the HPV vaccine would somehow increase sexual promiscuity in tweens and teens.  Yes, really.  The most annoying thing about it all was that legitimate scientists had to waste their time conducting a study just to clear this up.  But still, people remain unconvinced.
Please folks, do your research and do what’s right for your family.  And if you need any more advice, give UHPP a call and a clinician will be happy to speak with you and help put your concerns to rest.

Monday, March 18, 2013

Abstinence Only (In a Nutshell)

(Source: Tumblr)

Wine Tasting to benefit Upper Hudson Planned Parenthood


I like a lot of things.  I like puppies and kittens and cuddles from my hubby.  I like Doctor Who and the Walking Dead and films by Quentin Tarantino and Kevin Smith.  I like to snuggle up with a blanket and a beer and disappear into a great novel.

I like wine and cheese a lot-- especially when they're together.  Throw in some truffles and I'm in heaven.  If someone was to tell me that I could enjoy all three of these things-- while also celebrating women and benefitting a good cause-- I would ask them, "Tell me more about how I can attend such a worthy and fabulous event!"

I can only assume that you are like me and are sitting up a little straighter now, already imagining the mouth watering combination of a creamy camembert with a peppery red.  Toss in some dark chocolate and helloooo happy tongue!

It gets better:  Since March is Women's History Month, the great folks at the Charles F. Lucas Confectionery and Wine Bar are featuring wine and vittles from women entrepreneurs.  If you haven't been there yet, put it on your to-do list-- the place seriously rocks.

Here are the details:  This Saturday the 23rd, right after the Troy farmer's market, come to the Wine Bar at 12 Second Street in Troy.  Planned Parenthood Young Leaders will be there from 2-4 for a private tasting.  For $25 you get a tasting flight, snacks and charcuterie, truffles, an enlightening talk about pairings, and a presentation by Planned Parenthood.  After the presentation, the featured wines will be offered at a discount until 4pm, at which time the establishment will open to the public.

Check out the event on facebook and eventbrite, where people are encouraged to pre-register.  Questions about the event can be asked on its facebook page, and the staff at UHPP will answer to the best of their ability.  Interested parties can also direct inquiries to ppyl@uhpp.org.

There are so many reasons to attend this great event; if the venue, food and drink were not enough, come to celebrate women and Planned Parenthood!

This event is sponsored by Albany Medical Center and Tag Solutions.

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Politics, Birth Control, and Zero Productivity



Ben was a smart, hip guy, and probably
would have invented birth control if he
had the technology.

Ben Franklin once said that an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.  We’ve all heard the saying a thousand times, but have we really taken the time to think about it?  I don’t think most of us have to ponder it too deeply, as it just becomes a part of our daily routines.

We are all aware of the dangers of food poisoning, so we take simple precautions to cook our food properly and sanitize our hands and surfaces. Those simple measures can help eliminate some pretty serious illnesses, and who wouldn't want that? We live in an increasingly health conscious society that has a greater understanding of the need to cut back on sugar, fatty foods, cigarettes, and alcohol. Why? Because it makes our lives easier in the long term.  It’s so obvious that it hardly requires much thought.

Here in New York State, we are fortunate enough to have lawmakers who understand that Planned Parenthood provides an important service to society. Here at UHPP, about 90% of services provided at our health centers are preventative. That means women and men are coming to receive STI testing and treatment, birth control, cancer screenings, and other preventative care. Because UHPP operates on a sliding fee scale, many of the women who visit our health centers use UHPP as their primary care provider, when they would otherwise be unable to receive service.

Earlier this year in Arizona and Indiana, legislators passed laws that banned Planned Parenthood health centers from receiving Medicaid funding. This meant that millions of low-income women could not receive the health and reproductive care that they needed. Fortunately, judges in BOTH states struck down the laws, stating; "A state may not restrict a beneficiary's right to select any qualified provider for reasons wholly unrelated to the provider's ability to deliver Medicaid services." This is wonderful news for the women and families of Arizona and Indiana, but it is just another example of lawmakers trying to take down Planned Parenthood Centers around the U.S. 

Now here's where I get cranky. Many lawmakers are anti-choice. We know this, and it comes as no surprise. But if they are trying to stop abortions from occurring, why do they ceaselessly attempt to eliminate funding from an organization that works tirelessly to prevent them? What do they think will happen when women can no longer go to a Planned Parenthood to get low-cost or free birth control pills, condoms, or an IUD? 

Studies have shown that a greater investment in public health substantially reduces health care costs in communities. So why? Is it because Planned Parenthood also performs abortions?  Well, yes, they do, and will continue to fight for women to have that right. But do some lawmakers think that taking away the ability to dispense birth control will somehow, miraculously, lower the abortion rates? No. Studies—and common sense—show the very opposite to be true. So why? Is it simply because they hate us?

There are theories, many not productive, whirling about in my head right now. Sometimes I want to bang my head into a wall because I can't make sense of it. Often, when I'm reading the news, I have to resist the urge to start hollering at my laptop in public. But instead, I take a few deep breaths, and soldier on. New York may not be perfect, but at least here we are safe from these unscrupulous attacks.  For now.

Friday, March 8, 2013

Dinner and Vagina

I'll bet that's not a headline you're used to seeing! 


From the Event website:
ABB Event Productions and J.A.M. Productions are proud to bring you V-Day 2013: Albany!  It is our 6th annual Dinner and Vagina, to support the V-Day Campaign (this year's spotlight organization, One Billion Rising) and Upper Hudson Planned Parenthood. Tickets are $35 plus tax, tip, and bar. This includes a 3 course dinner and the show. Doors open at 6:30PM, and dinner is served at 7PM. Reservations are required and CAN ONLY BE MADE by calling Amanda @ 518-253-9821.
Unfortunately the Sunday show is already sold out, but there are still two showings available:  Monday, 3/11 at 6:30PM, and Tuesday, 3/12 at 6:30PM.  $35 for a full dinner and a show sounds like a helluva deal to me, so I hope to see you all there!  What better way than to celebrate International Women's Day by booking your dinner and vagina today.   Bring your partner, a family member, or a friend. 
  • Where:  Cafe 217
    12-1/2 Delaware Ave.
    Albany, NY 12210
    (518) 253-9821
  • When:  3/11 & 3/12, 6:30PM
  • What:  Dinner and a production of the Vagina Monologues, all for only $35 to benefit One Billion Rising and Upper Hudson Planned Parenthood
  • Why:  Because dinner and vagina, that's why.

 

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

What You Probably Don't Know About the Women's Equality Agenda

If you're anything like me, you probably find the influx of all of these "acts", "agendas," and other hot topics in the news quite overwhelming.  It seems like everyone wants to shout about something these days, and who can keep track of it all?  Throughout most of my twenties I floated around in a haze of ignorant bliss, choosing not to be bothered by the rabble of politicians and lobbyists.

Until I woke up and started realizing that this stuff actually mattered.

I was too busy having fun and being self-absorbed to realize that I --in the 21st century-- still was not being treated fairly and with equality.  You may shake your head and say to yourself; no way, that cannot be true. Things are fine.  Well, you would be wrong.

I was astonished to find out that even today, women in New York earn between 55 and 80 cents for every dollar a man earns.  That's not speculation, that's a fact.

Women with children are less likely to be hired and/or promoted for a position if they have children, and in most cases, make a lower salary than men with children, if they are hired in the first place.

But here's where things get really crazy, because it's not just about pay equality.  In many cases, our safety and rights are directly affected.  For example:
  • Women who work for very small companies-- with four employees or less-- can't file a lawsuit to stop sexual harassment.
  • Landlords can legally evict or refuse to rent to victims of domestic violence; 85 percent of whom are women.
  • Victims of sex and labor trafficking are often treated like the criminals, while the penalties for their abusers rarely fit the severity of the crime, and believe me, those crimes are horrifying.  Here's an excerpt from one story I read:
"I was involved in trafficking for more than six months. I compare that time to being held hostage in a timeless existence where my mind engaged itself in disassociation with my soul. This mental state was the only way in which I could keep any sanity. Repeatedly, I witnessed the beatings, rapes and murders of innocent women." --"A Survivor''s Story," StopHumanTraffickingNY
  • There actually is no law on the books protecting pregnant women from being pushed out of their jobs if they need any modest workplace accomodations-- even simple things like an extra break, or perhaps a stool to sit on rather than having to stand behind a counter all day.
  • New York abortion law fails to provide the same, comprehensive protections guaranteed in Roe v Wade, and is classified under the penal code instead of the health code. Tell me how that makes sense.
Overall, I would say our legislators have a lot of work ahead of them if they want to take NY out of the stone ages, or at the very least, out of the Mad Men days of Don Draper slapping behinds and calling ladies "toots."  There is absolutely no reason that violence against women or sexual harassment should ever be tolerated. Ever.

So could you do me a favor?  If you read this and thought, wow, that's not right, then utilize the links below to contact your legislators.  Make your voices heard, ladies. Stand up for your rights!